Do people really think I'm a bad person? Do I really come across that way? My persona doesn't change from website to website. I'm actually a very humble person struggling to get through life in one piece. I try to be helpful to anyone I can be - so long as I have the time and know how to do whatever it is needs helping with. Do I portray myself as knowledgeable and awesome on IMVU? Yes. I'm good at what I do there. That's not being a bitch or rude or mean. I do have a talent and I like to share it with people - and I have to if I plan to make any money. If I didn't think I was good at something, how on earth could I ever expect anyone else to think the same?
I really don't think I'm a bad person. I could list the reasons why but I think if I did, it would come off as too boastful and kind of rude. I have so much going on in my life and it's really hard. Some night I lay in bed trying to figure out how I'm going to make it through it all. If my frustration and stress comes through because of that... well, I think that's me showing that I'm only human.
4 comments:
You are not a bad person. In my old lady experience, I have found that most people see others thru the clouded eyes of their own faults. What to you is strong and confident, may seem to others as rude and bitchy.
In the time Ive known you personally thru the net, you've come off to me in many ways both good and bad. Thats human nature. Dont let others perceptions determine your actions. While it cant hurt to hear the opinions of your FRIENDS, it still ultimately comes down to what you think of yourself.
In other words - anonymous posters are unlikely to know you well enough to be a real friend, someone who can see all sides of you, so don't let it get to you. Be yourself and brush that kind of commentary right off your mental plate.
~Fishy
You are not a bad person Kimi, I may have not known you very long, but it usually doesn't take too much of a time frame to know someone very well, even if it is just the little details. Your only human, and you deal with alot of BS, yet you still stand up and fight it, when most people would shrug their shoulders and roll over to stare at their wall in bed.
Like what "Fishy" said above this comment, anonymous commenters are more than likely people who know hardly jack shit about you, or none at all. Don't let opinions such as that get you down, only you and your real friends, either online of outside of the computer, will know who you are.
The one thing they got right is that in fact you ARE a real person, you blog about real time drama in your life, and mellow things. I have actually read blog posts recently that seemed to perfect to be true, that they could not have actually lived their life that way, but I could be wrong and they just like to skip out of most details.
Everyone is entitled to portray as a bitch once in a while when the situation calls for it, if we weren't entitled to that much, we would be one boring human race, and might as well have a tail growing from above our rears, and live lives as Primates. So don't let those comments make you jump the gun too quickly, you might end up making something more serious than what it should be. As long as you and your friends know who you are, then that's all that really matters.
Take care :)
- Kevin
*Glomps Fishy* Hi! Well said!
You are NOT a bad person Kimi! Of course, everyone has their moments, lol. Anyone who actually gets to know you knows that your a genuinely nice person and probably more giving that you should be, lol. *Huggles*
You aren't a bad person, I never meant to come off that way. You just...it's not worth getting into it, this is your personal blog and probably not the place for me to be doing this. So I apologize.
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